"The donkey is a donkey, not a degenerate horse". Buffon
There are companions on the road who don't talk, don't prescribe, don't theorize about learning. They walk. They observe. They wait. Donkeys belong to this rare category, teaching through their way of being in the world. Long reduced to a utilitarian or folkloric image (Pastoureau 2025), today they are revealing themselves as singular mediators of learning, invaluable for understanding what it means to move forward differently, individually, collectively and in relation to the environment.
The donkey doesn't just follow a path: it feels it, evaluates it and negotiates it. This subtle relationship with the terrain, the gradients and the tensions of the group transforms walking into an embodied learning situation. In the learning itineraries carried out in projects such as Rêve de Dan'A, the donkey doesn't just play a decorative role: it reconfigures group dynamics and invites everyone to revisit their relationship with power, decision-making, trust and commitment.
1. The donkey as master of slowness: learning to adjust the pace
One of the first lessons he passes on is that of rhythm. Donkeys don't rush. His slowness is neither inertia nor resistance: it's ecological coherence. He pays attention to his feet. He moves forward when the terrain permits, stopping when he senses tension, and resuming when the relationship is re-established.
This particular tempo acts as a silent pedagogy. The human being, accustomed to urgency or performance, discovers another way of surveying the world: by adjustment rather than injunction. Walking with a donkey imposes a reduction in speed that opens up an inner space. It allows us to listen to what is lost in overly rapid rhythms: the micro-signals of the environment, bodily sensations, the subtle movements of emotions.
Work on embodied cognition (Varela, Thompson & Rosch, 1993) shows that slowing down promotes access to finer layers of perception. The donkey thus becomes a teacher of attention.
2. The path as a shared environment: learning with, not against
The donkey learns the path at the same time as we do, but not in the same way. It relies on the ground, the wind, smells and support. This sensitive relationship with the environment echoes Augustin Berque's (2010) notion of mediance: the relationship does not unite a subject and an environment, but a living being and its environment in a shared trajectory [back and forth between two poles].
Walking with a donkey means experiencing this co-emergence of the journey:
- the path is no longer a simple trace,
- it becomes an environment crossed and traversed,
- a space where decisions, attentions and mutual adjustments are woven together.
When the donkey hesitates, it forces the group to look differently:
- What does he perceive that we haven't yet?
- What micro-relief, what relational tension, what field fatigue have we overlooked?
With senses far more acute than our own, the donkey becomes the revealer of blind spots, the one who shows what humans, too focused on the objective, miss.
3. The donkey as a cooperative ethic: learning the right relationship
Donkeys don't stand up to force. Constraint produces resistance. Cooperation, on the other hand, produces availability. The way it works highlights a major relational principle for facilitation and training: the quality of the relationship and of care condition the quality of the action.
For a donkey to agree to move forward, it needs :
- feel the intention,
- identify a common rhythm,
- to feel secure in their relationship,
- to be recognized as a partner.
These elements are in line with contemporary work on psychological safety (Edmondson, 2019) and relational dynamics in adult learning (Carré, 2020). The donkey creates a terrain where these principles become tangible.
It acts as a relational mirror:
- If we pull, he freezes.
- If we agree, it moves forward.
- If we get restless, he slows down.
- If you breathe, it settles.
The donkey teaches the facilitating posture par excellence: the one that forces nothing and allows what must emerge to happen.
4. Learning by stepping: the donkey and the pedagogy of the journey
In our educational itineraries, the donkey is not just part of the scenery: it structures the learning process. Its presence encourages experiences of :
- resonance with the body,
- subtle listening to weak signals,
- attentional stabilization,
- collective decision-making,
- tension management.
Each step becomes a micro-experience in explicitation: the body understands before speech. Explanatory interviewing (Vermersch, 2012), used in our research to highlight the power of the living in the service of learning, finds natural ground here: slow movement brings up the lived experience, enabling us to revisit it and grasp its fine gestures. The donkey acts as a mediator, providing access to tacit experience and reinforcing reflexive learning.
5. The donkey as a support for groups: learning to team up
Groups that walk with a donkey experience a gradual transformation of their dynamics. The group learns to :
- synchronize,
- distribute effort,
- welcome frailties,
- adjust responsibilities,
- cooperate without domination.
The donkey makes visible what many teams struggle to perceive in a traditional training room: the work of the collective is not an alignment of individuals, but a shared march. Through its rhythm and character, the donkey exposes tensions, reveals ephemeral leaders, opens up spaces for discussion, and invites slower, more robust forms of coordination.
The experience of walking with one or more donkeys becomes a living laboratory, a demonstration that cooperation is not taught by concepts but by gestures, situations and concrete adjustments. (cf. the experience of Dan'A's Rêve innovation laboratory).
6. The road as transformation: what the donkey helps us to become
At the end of an itinerary with a donkey, participants often testify to :
- a calmer relationship with time,
- a sharper perception of the environment,
- renewed confidence in collective processes,
- a better understanding of themselves,
- a more embodied understanding of what it means to be a team.
The donkey transmits an intelligence of the living: a way of situating oneself, of adjusting, of entering into relationships. It puts everyone in the right frame of mind, neither passive nor forced, where we move forward not because we are pushed, but because we feel that the environment, the group and the animal invite us to do so. It teaches what Berque calls trajectivity: the art of co-emerging with what surrounds us. The donkey is not a guide: he's a companion along the way, even part of the way to yourself. He reminds us of a simple truth: we really learn when we accept to be affected by the world and to walk at our own pace.
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