Taking an interest in others rather than retreating into one's own beliefs
The question of open-mindedness is not a simple one. It is often perceived as a way of backing away from one's own thoughts, values and so on, when in fact it is not a way of convincing. As this exchange with a psychosocial counsellor reminds us, the idea is above all to understand that the other is a human being and to develop empathy in order to explain where he or she comes from.
She gives the very Quebecois example of field hockey, which can be a divisive subject if we focus on teams, but if we concentrate on what we love about the sport, we find common ground.
So, when it comes to mental health issues, an open-minded attitude on the part of those around us and society at large is essential to help people navigate through the different emotions they feel. This requires a genuine interest in the problem in question, whatever it may be, and even more so in what the sufferer is experiencing.
Of course, it can be easy to simply dismiss the person's thoughts as strange or not grounded in reality. But that's forgetting that the individual's thinking has developed in this way for all sorts of reasons (many of them unknown), and that mocking or frustrating oneself brings nothing but shame to the other person.
For the learners, the discussions revolve around one thing: the grade. Everyone is looking for the best result in order to get into the most prestigious courses. However, this system has turned school into an anxiety-provoking environment that makes those who do not succeed feel guilty. What if evaluation eliminated percentages and letters? An idea that is being debated, but that is of interest to more and more teachers.
In a context where the human ecological footprint and the collapse of physical activity among children are issues, walking or cycling to school would already be a good solution. However, many parents refuse to let their children use active means of transport for fear of the risks involved. The solution to these fears could be the velobus.