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Publish at December 08 2019 Updated September 14 2023
The family has an exemplary role to play in teaching children to read, long before the school takes over. Indeed, a taste for reading first appears through imitation. Then, with the help of pleasure, the motivation becomes internalized and the child begins to seek out this pleasure.
Motivation is a key factor in a child's success in learning to read[1], and readers are more likely to be interested in texts that reflect their personal experiences[2]. But this is not enough. For imitation[3] to become a deep-seated motivation, the child must have the freedom to construct his or her own reading project.
The great challenge for parents, teachers and other reading mediators is to encourage without constraining. In fact, any constraint on reading reduces the freedom needed to build reading behavior. Every time we put pressure on young people to read, we're counterproductive. And when young people read less, the pressure is even greater.
Constantly telling a child: "You must read", "It's serious and useful"; "You'd better read instead of...", without setting an example yourself, is already the beginning of a constraint. On the other hand, taking a child to the library, proposing a playful activity involving a book, is an incentive, not a constraint.
But then again, the books have to live up to their promise, and enthrall the young reader. Reading may seem like an activity of little interest to young Africans, who rarely have the opportunity to identify with the characters[4]. If they never manage to recognize themselves[5 ] in the texts, they may become disengaged from all activities associated with literature.
Texts should be like them, with stories that reflect their culture and personal experiences. If they see that reading plays a role in their own lives, this will sustain their motivation and interest in books.
By studying the reading behavior of young Cameroonians in Yaoundé[6], Louise Balock came to the conclusion that children with a regular reading habit come from families with a high social level. The results of her study confirm Bourdieu's[7 ] work on the role of education in cultural consumption, whatever the cultural practice in question (reading, performing arts, cinema, museum).
In short, here are a few tips to encourage your child, teenager or young person to read.
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Adults and children alike are attracted by the forbidden. I remember that in Cameroon, some public places with the notice "N'urinez pas ici SVP" ("Please don't urinate here") were those where the practice had become very regular. But when the notice was changed to "Urinate here please! We need your urine". Citizens had drastically stopped doing so. The purpose of this little digression is simply to show that you can do the same for a good cause.
With the complicity of an older brother/sister or cousin who wants to lend a book to your children. You argue that it's not for their age (yes, it is) and that it's for another time. If one of them insists enough, you've almost got it.


The list is far from exhaustive. However, I hope they will help you to help your children and students enjoy reading and develop a taste for it.
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[1] Jocelyne Giasson, La lecture : apprentissage et difficultés, Boucherville, Gaetan Morin, 2011, p.41.
[2] Pouliot Suzanne, "Les personnages africains dans la littérature québécoise de jeunesse", vol. 7, 2005, p. 22-37.
[3] Imitation is a key phase in children's learning, notes Lawrence Cohen, in his book Playful Parenting.
https://www.parents.com/toddlers-preschoolers/development/behavioral/teach-kids-imitate-your-good-qualities/
[4] Flake Sharon. "Who Says Black Boys Won't Read? Journal of Children's literature. N°34, pp. 13-14. http://connection.ebscohost.com/c/articles/31869917/who-says-black-boys-wont-read]
[5] Anne-Marie DIONNE, "La mosaïque culturelle du Canada dans la littérature de jeunesse de langue française : une analyse des albums, de 2003 à 2012, in Etudes Ethniques au Canada, CES Volume 46, n°2, 2014, pp. 75-98.
[6] Balock Louise Lutéine, "Les adolescents et la lecture à Yaoundé: contribution à la mise en œuvre d'une politique de développement de la lecture", IFLA, 2014, p. 23.
[7] Bourdieu, "ART (Aspects culturels) - La consommation culturelle", Encyclopædia Universalis [online], accessed 02-01- 2017.
http://www.universalis.fr/encyclopedie/art-aspects-culturels-la-consommation-culturelle/